Because of the many privileges I hold, I rarely get any trolls online. However, last fall, an unhappy person decided to choose a hashtag used by people who post their outfits online to troll (probably something like #ootd, or “outfit of the day”) and they landed on my Instagram feed.
I would love to see more photos here. I am not on instagram, facebook or tiktok and it seems like that is where a lot of the photos are. Bringing them here would be great.
I haven't told you what a wonderful role model you've been to me. I've never felt secure enough to express my feelings out loud to the masses. Over the years, your posts (and your personal help) have encouraged me to wear outfits that feel good and make me feel confident when wearing them. The need to conform has been engrained since birth. However, I still feel the need to dress a certain way in my work role, probably because I'm constantly being judged on multiple levels. See? I still have some work to do… I love your bravery in being so open with your feelings. It's been truly inspirational.
Aw, jodi!!! I’m so glad, and also you have to balance all of that with your needs for doing the work you do, so don’t worry too much about that. That’s the reality of the world, that you might lose business if you didn’t adhere to those standards, so do what’s best for your safety and security. Hugs ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for saying that it’s misogyny to bash things that are perceived as “things women do”. I have been mocked by an aunt because I like to knit and crochet. And her partner at the time was a knitter, too!
The wild thing is, that could have been a productive and insightful conversation! I like seeing people's outfits online, especially women in larger bodies because it keeps me optimistic that maybe I'll find clothes I love that also, idk, fit me?
I admit to being disappointed if you wait (what I deem as) too long to post a video of you and your outfits on Instagram. I get a kick out of seeing your finds. I'm not a big instagrammer. I follow you, Sarai Walker (author of the feminist manifesto "Dietland,") and Afro-minimalist Christine Platt to witness zest and style. The fashion! The activism. The voices! It's inspiring watching you live confidently in your skin. My world was nearly obliterated when I was in my 40s so seeing you make good with your life puts a smile on my face every time your authentic self graces the camera. Keep showing up. Keep styling. Keep doing the thing.
I love seeing real women with real bodies sharing what they wear. Thank you
Me too.
Me three!
I would love to see more photos here. I am not on instagram, facebook or tiktok and it seems like that is where a lot of the photos are. Bringing them here would be great.
Same! I don’t want to be on social media — bring it to substack!
I haven't told you what a wonderful role model you've been to me. I've never felt secure enough to express my feelings out loud to the masses. Over the years, your posts (and your personal help) have encouraged me to wear outfits that feel good and make me feel confident when wearing them. The need to conform has been engrained since birth. However, I still feel the need to dress a certain way in my work role, probably because I'm constantly being judged on multiple levels. See? I still have some work to do… I love your bravery in being so open with your feelings. It's been truly inspirational.
Aw, jodi!!! I’m so glad, and also you have to balance all of that with your needs for doing the work you do, so don’t worry too much about that. That’s the reality of the world, that you might lose business if you didn’t adhere to those standards, so do what’s best for your safety and security. Hugs ❤️❤️❤️
I totally second Jodi!
Thanks for saying that it’s misogyny to bash things that are perceived as “things women do”. I have been mocked by an aunt because I like to knit and crochet. And her partner at the time was a knitter, too!
I love daily outfit posts, love love love. They’re so helpful for my own daily inspiration.
The wild thing is, that could have been a productive and insightful conversation! I like seeing people's outfits online, especially women in larger bodies because it keeps me optimistic that maybe I'll find clothes I love that also, idk, fit me?
I admit to being disappointed if you wait (what I deem as) too long to post a video of you and your outfits on Instagram. I get a kick out of seeing your finds. I'm not a big instagrammer. I follow you, Sarai Walker (author of the feminist manifesto "Dietland,") and Afro-minimalist Christine Platt to witness zest and style. The fashion! The activism. The voices! It's inspiring watching you live confidently in your skin. My world was nearly obliterated when I was in my 40s so seeing you make good with your life puts a smile on my face every time your authentic self graces the camera. Keep showing up. Keep styling. Keep doing the thing.